I am normally a very laid-back person. If something bothers me and I can’t fix it, I take a tip from my dog. I kick a little dirt on it, after marking it for later reference, and then move on.
Some things are harder than others to move on from, though. One of my biggest pet peeves is people who go out of their way to bring a little gloominess to everything they touch. When I encounter them, I try to remember that negative people are simply that: negative. They’ll find fault with anything and everything. I can usually just do the dog-thing and kick a little dirt on the situation and move on, but not when it comes to friends or family.
If you know me, you’ll probably remember that I am very passionate about the Haunted Victorian Mansion in Gardner, Massachusetts. I visit any chance I get. I am peculiarly drawn there. I just can’t seem to stay away.
A lot of my fixation involves the house itself. Built in 1875, the Second Empire Victorian style mansion is beautiful in detail and rich in history. The nine-foot tall mahogany doors lead to a luxurious interior that was state-of-the-art for the late 1800’s. The house boasts two cisterns that once collected rainwater from the slate roof, providing the occupants with running water. The hand-carved moldings and cornices speak volumes of a time when houses were built slowly and lovingly. A sophisticated call-system was wired through the house, allowing people on one floor to communicate with those on other floors. Famous people frequented the mansion back in its heyday. Minnesota Fats played pool there. The likes of Bette Davis, PT Barnum, and Norman Rockwell were frequent visitors. President Calvin Coolidge even spent time there. Walking through the doors is like traveling back in time.
The house is owned by two of the nicest people I’ve ever known. Edwin Gonzalez and Lillian Otero are very warm and welcoming. From the first time I met them, and they greeted me at the door with hugs, I knew they were special people. Over the years, they’ve collected a group of friends, who fondly refer to themselves as the Victorian Mansion Groupies. We help out with investigations and fund-raisers, and anything else that needs time and attention. Heading up this group is Marion Luomo, the Victorian Mansion Caretaker. She tirelessly tends to the house while the owners are away, checking to insure the house is in good order, and often opening up the house for investigations and tours. She is often joined by Tina Aube, who is just as addicted to the Victorian Mansion as I am. Our friend, Sandy MacLeod joins us on occasion, as does NE POST founder, Christopher Cox, and co-founder, Christina Treger Achilles, who are pooling resources for repairs to the house. Together, we all have a mission: to save the Victorian.
The Victorian has fallen on tough times. 138 years of freezing and thawing, pigeons, hurricanes, and blizzards, has taken its toll on the house. The gables are pulling away from the building, and the slate roof has been leaking for many years, threatening the entire structure. Chris Cox brought in a contractor for an evaluation, and the news wasn’t good. If the house isn’t repaired, it might not last another year or two.
Anyone who owns an old Victorian knows they can be money pits. When Edwin and Lillian first moved in, they spent money hand-over-fist, fixing the plumbing, trying to get the fireplaces to work safely, updating the electrical, and a host of other repairs. Any money they received from tours and investigations went almost directly to the repairmen. When the house became too paranormally active to live in, they were forced to move closer to Boston, where they share a small space at Lillian’s sister’s house.
At this point, they could have sold the house. They could have put it on the market and taken a financial hit for all the money they’d already invested into it. But, like many of us, the house had a hold on them. They loved it and wanted, if nothing else, to save it from total ruin. They just couldn’t walk away and leave it up to fate.
Nearly every penny they receive from investigations and tours goes right back into the house. Besides the expensive repairs, they have to pay the mortgage, the electric bill, town taxes, and insurance. They do this for a house they can’t even live in, while maintaining a separate residence nearly fifty miles away. When the house appears on a paranormal show, it brings more interest. More people want to tour it or investigate it, bringing more money for the repairs that are desperately needed.
And some people have criticized them for it.
They say they’re exploiting the spirits, while raking in tons of money and enjoying their fame and fortune. Those people have never seen Edwin and Lillian drive up to the event in their old Honda, or understand that they now live in a room that is smaller than any one room in the mansion they own, but can’t live in. They’ve never seen them break down in tears when talking about the events that led them to flee from their own house. They’ve never seen the love in their eyes as they talk about their beloved Victorian.
As Edwin recently said, “Who would do that? Who would buy a house they couldn’t live in?”
Everyone is entitled to their opinion, of course. Some say the house is filled with ghosts, while others proclaim it to be ghost-free. If you lived it from the inside-out, you would probably have a different take on the matter. Imagine being pinned to your bed with invisible hands, waking up to find a woman standing by your bedside crying. What would you do if your doors slammed on their own accord, while you listened to footsteps walk around your bed while you tried to sleep? What if you were overtaken by something you couldn’t explain, waking up days later with little knowledge of what transpired? Would you really want to stay there? I’ve spent the night there twice, and I can tell you that it wasn’t a pleasant experience. While I love the house dearly, I’d never want to live there. If I had the opportunity to seek help, or at least have some of my questions answered, I too would turn to people who could possibly offer assistance. The problem is: who do you believe?
Not all the people invited to the mansion are there to investigate. Some have been called in to help. Multiple people have blessed and cleansed the house. Others have offered answers to some of the questions plaguing the owners. In the paranormal field though, answers are never cut and dried. Since there aren’t any rule books on the subject, all of the information being provided to the owners has been varied, and not always helpful. Some have caused more harm than good. Others have tried to fix this, only to make it worse. For the moment, the house is much calmer than it’s been in years, but that isn’t guaranteed to last. As we all know, change often happens quickly and without warning.
So, please…be more considerate. Remember that this is a house that needs help. Sponsoring paranormal events brings money which is needed to fix the house. If the house isn’t repaired, it has only a few years left before it will fall into a swift decline. It is a piece of Gardner history, a treasure that is precariously hanging by its last hope. If having it featured on paranormal television shows helps this house stick around another hundred years, what harm is it doing to you?
If you have ideas that could help Edwin and Lillian, by all means, please share them. We all love that house and want nothing more than to see it transformed back to its former beauty.
Now, I’m going to kick some dirt over this and move on. I have another book to write.
Joni Mayhan is a paranormal investigator, as well as a free-lance writer. Please check out her paranormal thrillers on Amazon.com and BarnesandNobles.com. For more information about the author, please see her website: Jonimayhan.com
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Proud of Joni & my friends at the Haunted Victorian Mansion! Heads high all!
So many people living in glass houses these days and so willing to cast the first stone 😦
This makes me very sad!
Do unto others…. Please all think before you comment, criticize, attack or defend a cause… Hurting others to make a point is NOT worth it and makes you look weak… If you’ve got nothing good or positive to say maybe just keep it to yourself! 🙂
Carol – you can go to their website to learn more. It’s hauntedvictorianmansion.com
Thanks, Chris. You’ve already done so much for the Victorian, with your fund-raising ideas and getting a contractor in there to evaluate the repair costs. The Victorian is lucky to have you as a friend.
I don’t know where this is, in Gardner. I heard about a haunted house in Gardner, from a nurse at the hospital, don’t know if this is the same one. How does one find out more about it?
It’s in South Gardner, you can’t miss it.
I think I know where it is. You go past what used to be Olsen’t restaurant, and the Cumberland Farms, and isn’t it on the right? With those weird cut-out soldiers in front?
Carol – it’s on the corner of Broadway and West Streets, right across from the South Gardner Hotel.
Joni….love everything you just stated about the Haunted Mansion in Gardner. It is a beautiful old home with a lot of soul! you are right anything they can do to help raise funds to save it is so totally acceptable.
I wish them luck on keeping the repairs going
Thanks, Vicki. I love that house and am looking forward to seeing the renovations.
I need to play devil’s advocate here, but Ive seen posts from a Rhode Island group and blogs others have posted and I have to say I am confused about the owners. Did they or did they not know the house was haunted when they bought it and why has the house not been renovated yet after years of fundraising. I want to know the facts before I decide. My team and I see cases like this all the time, a venue wants money for repairs or fundraisers but we never see the money to fruition. Why does the homeowner charge teams for investigations if they are seeking help
To clarify – they didn’t know the house was haunted the first time they came to look at it. In between the first and second visit, someone showed them a Youtube video from Ghost Hunters. They shrugged it off because neither of them believed in ghosts. That changed very quickly. They started having experiences almost immediately. The contractor who just visited the house is putting together a plan for them to fix the roof, chimneys, and eaves. It will cost a significant amount of money to fix it, but fund-raising efforts are also in the works. They’ve been sinking money into it for years, fixing numerous issues – those old Victorians need constant repairs. Also remember, they have a mortgage, insurance, and other expenses for a house they don’t live in. Rates for investigations are listed on their website: hauntedvictorianmansion.com. Thank you for taking the time to ask the question.
Thank you for the reply, have you verified this with the previous owner? This version of the story greatly differs from the others out there
I have spoken at length with both Edwin and Lillian, the current owners. There is some misinformation out there, but it’s nothing they have personally contributed to. They have spoken with the previous owner on the telephone several times, but have never met him. This is their story, as it has and is happening to them. Anything else that is floating out there is not valid. It’s really the reason why I wrote this article. They are truly wonderful people who are trying to do nothing more than preserve the mansion.
Dear mcosta47. My name is Jay and I am the founder of said “Rhode island” team you speak of. Please feel free to contact me anytime for clarification of our post. Jay@silentvoicesparanormal.com
You should talk to me, Mark Veau… I am the previous owner of the Victorian and have loads of info that nobody else has.
I’d love to talk with you, Mark. Is that your email above?
Hi Mark, you probably don’t remember me, but you would remember my my Karen Granquist. She was the realtor when you bought the mansion. Was looking at articles on the mansion for some reason, and noticed your comment. Hope all is well with you & your family.
I like to go the mansion for a hunt . it s fun and i definately think someone or something is there that could be called paranormal. However, everyone has their own opinion . To me, if they can fix up an old victorian mansion without using government funds and keep a bit of history alive by providing ghost tours I don t think that should pose a problem. I just question how much the owners get for the hunts and how much profit the ghost hunting groups are making for themselves. I have been offered hunts ranging in price from 35 to 65 dollars. Perhaps the groups should be limited on how much profit they should be allowed to make. If it is a special hunt with special guests ok for a small price increase but why do they want so much for some that don t have anything special? If a paranormal group is truly interested in a ghost hunt they should be happy to not make a pennies profit. As you know, i have never charged for any of my ghost hunts. I either bite the cost or I don t do it and I think this should be the policy of all groups.
Has anyone thought about doing a Kickstarter campaign as a fundraiser for the Victorian?
Yes. There’s been talk, but nothing firm has been set up. I’m publishing a book shortly about the mansion and am donating half of my proceeds to Edwin and Lillian for building funds, but it’s a drop in the bucket compared to what they need. If you have any suggestions, I’d love to hear them. 🙂